I wish the mad turnip-controller under found_objects
would have understood me.
To his defense, I was being a bit vague and widely free-wheeling in my attempt to convince of the need for more mods.
The best core advice I ever received along this line was when one is taken back by observation of something surprising . . . if there are negative emotions that rise, one great place to start the analysis would be self-directed.
In other words, when folks get upset, two good questions to ask before action:
1) Why does this bother me?
2) Is there something inside of me that is distorting this reaction?
I'm glad I helped in some way.
I wish I could follow this good mechanism with deific accuracy and efficiency.